You can't "mindset" 🤯 your way through this one ...


Over the past few weeks I've talked a lot about identity shifts, Reader — from the way a single tune can instantly transport you to a version of yourself from decades ago, to what can happen when your "cheese" gets moved. Today I want to name what lives underneath all of it. The thing of it is: when the ground is shifting beneath your feet — Heartbreak. Soul ache. Grief that won't stay in its lane — it's not just your plans that fall apart. It's your sense of who you are. Yet nobody hands you...